Even the most understated ceremony involves a certain respect for ritual and pageantry, and no one plays more of a significant role than the bride’s attendants. From the youngest flower girl to the maid of honor, they provide a prelude to the much-anticipated coming of the bride. They also occupy a place of honor and trust throughout the celebration.
KEEP IN MIND
• Where attire is concerned, the bridesmaids must take their cue from the bride.
• That being said, most brides today are increasingly sensitive to the tastes, feelings and finances of the attendants.
• If an occasion warrants a Unique wedding dress, it is customary for the bride to as
sume the expenses.
• For less serious ceremonies, many bridesmaids are encouraged to select their Discount bridesmaid dresses, particularly if they reside out of town.
• Some less conventional brides are entirely willing to leave the choice up to their attendants.
• While rules do exist, some brides choose to disregard them.
Matching
For a traditional wedding, there should always be some degree of reference between the bride’s gown and those of her attendants.
KEEP IN MIND
• Whatever the style of dress, it should flatter each woman equally.
• If everyone cannot wear the same silhouette, select different variations on a theme for each attendant. • Uniformity of color, fabric design and accessories can create a semblance of conformity. The same goes for similar hairdos and makeup.
Non-Matching
Even if each attendant is choosing her own attire, she must still respect the bride’s directives. By allowing each attendant to select the wedding gown, a bride is being inclusive, yet differentiating between each bridesmaid. For extremely large bridal parties, conformity of dress can be somewhat tedious. On the other hand, each attendant in a different gown can be a bit distracting. 
TO CONSIDER
Uniformity
• Establish common ground with slight variations for each attendant.
• Select one fabric, but allow different shapes.
• Choose one style, and offer alternate colors.
• Opt for one dress, but have attendants carry different flowers.
• Use uniform skirts with varying tops.
• Jewelry should always be minimal.
• For uniformity, it is best for a bride to purchase the attendants’ jewelry herself. That way, the attendants might be less likely to object to wearing it.
• If the ceremony is religious, a bare dress must be covered with a shawl, wrap, knit cardigan or tiny bolero.
• Try to select a shoe that is flattering on everyone. Different heel heights can offset any height discrepancies.
• It makes sense to choose one style of handbag for
